In life, we all plan to lead our lives a certain way: We make rules and bound ourselves to them; a self-inflicted moral measure that helps us to wake up each morning and tell ourselves that we are good people.

The problem with making plans is that nothing lasts forever; plans change as circumstances do and like that old adage: Sometimes when you search for a dream, you lose it along the way and find a better one.

I think that in my life, one of the things I've learnt to embrace as an adult is learning to adapt to the circumstances. I have never been a huge fan of "going with the flow". I am someone who enjoys order, structure and a long-term plan/blueprint of how to lead my life.

Recently, something happened that made me change my way of thinking. For no particular reason, I gave in to the urge/impulse to go with the flow regarding a significant decision in my life.

And I have no regrets.

Carpe Diem.